Image Source: allaboutnanny.blogspot.com |
The nanny is a great help in parenting, especially if you are a working parent. She looks after the welfare of your children. She gives you reassurance that your kids’ needs are being provided for even in your absence.
However, your children grow over time and the nanny’s skills may not be adequate for their changing needs. You know it’s time to get a new nanny when:
- Undesirable changes in the children are perceived. When your babies start talking and their nanny cusses a lot, they might learn foul words from her. Likewise, your toddlers’ exploring nature may get on the nerves of the nanny. Sudden withdrawal from other kids and getting frequent bruises might be a sign that your children are being emotionally or physically abused by their child care provider.
- The nanny becomes disrespected by your children. Your children acquire new learning as they progress in school. If your kids seem to be brighter than the nanny, they could ridicule and distrust her for the perceived inadequacy.
- The nanny becomes “unfit.” The nanny’s gender, for instance, may not be an issue for your newborn babies. But when your babies grow, they take gender roles and develop a need to relate with their nanny. Mannies, male nannies, can effectively bond with young boys, especially those who need a male role model and a father or big brother figure.
Image Source: care.com |
Getting a new nanny can be difficult, especially if your family has become accustomed to the ways of the old one. However, your children’s well-being is of utmost importance. When your gut instinct tells you to hire a new nanny, go for it and make the change.
Image Source: boston.cbslocal.com |
Brightstar offers professional nanny services for the changing needs of your growing children. Follow this Twitter page to get more childcare tips.